So sorry for not updating. haha. Life got in the way. everything from IU day to tests and then debate.
I think most people would think that guys get over girls much faster and they seem to apply to every single guy. but i think you should know that not all guys are major jerks. not all of em are heartless bastards. i'm not saying there aren't jerks and bastards around. but i am saying that. not all males are brainless and heartless.
i know some guys who are downright sweet and have a heart of gold but have the tendency of falling for the girl that's a total player too. not to mention greedy and a user. i know a guy who had his heartbroken and just chose not to fall in love anymore till he's done with his twenties. sad but true.
But it is awful when you know that the other person has forgotten you. replaced you. ouch right? defo. fo sho homey.
some people have the tendency to take nothing seriously. everything they put into mind is taken lightly. that way when they leave, they aren't hurt as much. it can be both curse and blessing. they love quick but they also fall out of it quick. their always having the constant need to find someone to love. it's sad to watch when you know why.
being replaced? it hurts. cause it's only natural to compare yourself to them. thinking it's your fault. thinking you weren't good enough. but you've definitely got to stop yourself right there. if he left you, he must have his reason. if she left you, same shizz. if he/she can find someone new, why can't you? unless of course there's only the three of you left in the world. if it isn't so, then wakeup. move on.
easier said than done? i know right. but life's a constant struggle. it's a battle. but you've got to get all of yourself together to fight back. if he's still a friend to you, then take it. but dont hold him to heart anymore. just treat him like any other friend. start seeing your other friends. by that i dont mean dating other people right away. i mean try being single! go out with a bunch of friends and go crazy in the malls! just have fun being single. flirt with strangers. dance with your girlies or guys!
just know that you aren't alone. even if you think you've got the worst situation in the world. you dont. you're fine. or you will be.
for some reason, i miss talking to you. and i hope you'll call me back asap okay pluto. thanks.
just thinking,
joyce
